I am afraid to ask
though I know
that being asked for help
brings you closer to the person asking.

If I were to ask
I’d be building bonds.
I’d be making friends.
I’d be gaining allies.

It wouldn’t be a matter of admitting weakness.
or ignorance or shame or anything else.
It’s admitting an understanding of your limits
and a willingness to collaborate.
Asking for help makes you better able to get things done.

If I say it enough
I may believe it.