You have got to start shutting up.
You need to take a lesson or eighty in body language,
in human relations,
in cultural sensitivity,
in social interactions in the setting of your birth,
however you want to define it.
Just… learn to behave.

When someone gets quiet
after providing you with private details of a personal
traumatic nature
do not ask if they want to watch a gorecore comedy,
even if it had been discussed earlier in the evening.
It is simply not proper etiquette.

Begin the shutting up.
Quiet down.
No more words tonight.
This is it.